I used to hear coming from my father, that a 10 min. conversation, was 9 min. too long.
I miss my conversations with my father.
When my clients would yell at me, particularly when I was visiting them, in lockup, I would tell them that when you yell, I am right at home, "my father used to yell at me, point blank, spit cascading in my face, windtunnel tested dew, and that was when I was five years old. So I am not intimidated by the loudness, in fact I am right at home."
For a 5 foot nine, 130 pound man, he could bring on the intimidation. Outside of that, he never ever physically punished me, well maybe twice in my life. I probably deserved it, I think I might have brought mud onto a new carpet, and another time probably been a wise guy.
But I did get cursed out in at least four different languages. So I learned various curse words, which of course I learned, and use when necessary.
There was little tolerance for misbehavior. He was a champion backgammon player, and we have three or four nice backgammon boards, but if I was caught counting, not memorizing the backgammon board, I would get a slap.
Jimmy
Someone just turned me on to your blog Jimmy and I will be tuning in. Sacred Heart Angels forever. Bet you have no idea who this is? Enjoying the reading and will hopefully see you in November. Keep up the thought provoking posts. A fan in Panama.....
ReplyDeleteI will always be an angel, I think I know who you are,
Deletesend my best to your family, and keep me posted, and keep reading.
Jimmy
The Assyrian enjoys your wit, wisdom, and ability to keep things in perspective. You've got another fan, Jimmy.
ReplyDeleteI thank you and keep reading, please remember that I have a lot of respect for your people.
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That's a great saying!.....smart man your father was. >^..^<
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